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Monday, 28 February 2011

Family time!

Last week Olly Woo and I went on a trip to see my family, since they were all off school for half term. We had fun!! We went to a National Trust house, Ickworth, on Friday to do some activites and be shown around the house. It was beautiful, and reminded me of the time we used to spend there with our friends, The Thomases! (I stayed with them while I was at university and I LOVE them).


We went to Cafe Nero on Saturday to meet my school friend Gabby which was lovely as I haven't seen her for aaaages! We had hot chocolates and Harry came too!

We also visited Nanna and Granddad - Oliver's Great grandparents- which was nice. We heard Granddad's great news that his treatment has worked so far!!! They also had a visitors book that we wrote comments in which could be lots of fun!!

All in all, a very lovely few days spent with my family and time for Olly Woo to bond with his little uncles! :)

After church on Sunday we went to Ben's parents' house for dinner. Mum, Dad, Sarah, Liam, Grandma and Jim were there= more family!! :) Oliver was quite the attraction- he got lots of cuddles and went out in the sling with Aunty Sarah and very nearly Uncle Liam!


Lovely.

Wednesday, 23 February 2011

I swear it's impossible to buy a house

With Ben starting a new job this year we've been talking a lot about money things recently. Ben drew up some preliminary calculations (he does enjoy that!) and it was SCARY... we worked out that after bills and rent and food we'd have about £150 left each month- and we hadn't accounted for anything fun or a holiday or saving anything!!!!

How on earth does anyone manage to buy a house?????!!!! 

Everything seems so stacked against first time buyers!! Last night Ben did a search on the rightmove website for houses and flats in a 5-mile radius of Aberdeen. There was NOTHING for less than £170,000!!! Thank goodness Ben has a good job lined up- at least it won't be impossible. I suppose this is what being newly married is all about- it's going to be fun! I think we'll be renting for a couple more years... :)

Tuesday, 22 February 2011

Jamaican Baby!



At the mo we are warming up this grey February day by listening to a bit of Stevie Wonder. I think Oliver looks a bit like a laid-back Jamaican... apart from a few obvious details!!

In other news, he is wearing his first pair of 3-6 month trousers today. He's getting BIG!

Monday, 21 February 2011

My Top Five

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Friday, 18 February 2011

Culinary delights

This afternoon Oliver was asleep for about three hours!!!! This is miraculous since he NEVER sleeps longer than a 5-minute power nap during the day. So, I celebrated by rushing around the house and doing everything I have ever wanted to do (!) I did the washing up, cut out some squares of fabric (I'm going to start quilting) and... I made some scrummy chocolate fudge brownies.

These brownies are part of my new year's resolution to work on my culinary skills- especially on baking since I never do any- in fact, we never have pudding! How sad. I think I'm pretty much keeping up with my yearly goal- to try out one new recipe a week. So far I've made-

- Spicy curry potatoes- alright but so covered in spices I could hardly taste the potato
- Pizza, including dough- delicious. I even cracked an egg on top, and felt rather fancy!
- Gingerbread men- Really good but very fat and a bit different from ones I'd ever had before... (and Ben burnt the others!)
- Yorkshire puddings- HUGE and yummy!!
- Leeks with cheesy sauce- they were surprisingly good
- Sticky chocolate pudding- we didn't have any steaming equipment so Ben helped me invent a complicated system involving a chopping board on top... and eventually we caved and used the microwave. It kind of worked!!
- and Chocolate fudge brownies- they look good but they haven't cooled yet so I can't really tell

So, nothing tricky at all, but all NEW! Hooray. And I really enjoyed it... I'm VERY gradually becoming a domestic goddess!! :)


Ooh, and he's a token picture of Olly Woo, because he's just so cute! He is clearly amazed by my yummy creations

Thursday, 17 February 2011

Question:

How do you (or would you) balance keeping a baby happy and keeping a husband happy??! (I'm not having any problems, but it's a fine line and I want to get better at balancing!)

Tuesday, 15 February 2011

A smile for the camera!! FINALLY!

Today I finally managed to take a photo of Oliver smiling...



... and then I couldn't stop him!!! (He's a performer!)









I'm know I'm biased, but I still think he's the cutest little boy in all the land. I can't believe that ten weeks ago he was in my tummy!!!!

Saturday, 12 February 2011

The Adventures of Tib the Teddy

Like all small children, Oliver has managed to accumulate a fair few teddies and other creatures since being born. I have decided on his favourite... :)

This is Tiberius Twigger. We call him Tib for short.


Oliver is very happy to see Tib this morning!


I helped them get ready for the day together


- including matching plastic pants!


They played in the bouncy chair


Olly: "Mmm, Mummy's milky is so yummy!"
Tib: "I know!" (nom nom nom) "It's so nice of you to share it with me!"


Ahh!! Now they're ready for the day! :)

Thursday, 10 February 2011

Olly Woo's life- as dictated to Mummy :)

Here are a few photos from the last couple of weeks in the life of the Olly Woo. As told in his own words....

"I went to a very interesting talk at the Houses of Parliament"-



"I had a stripey day with Mummy"-


"I played with Daddy! He's the best!!"-



"Daddy taught me how to make this funny sign with my hand"-


"I had a bath. Mummy had more fun than me"-


"I walked all the way to Girton church with Mummy!"-


"I found something amazing!"


"Ahh, snowdrops! They were pretty!"-

Wednesday, 9 February 2011

A Mother's Desperate Craving Fulfilled!

Hello again!

For the last few weeks I have been itching to watch 'The King's Speech' at the cinema. I'd kind of written the cinema off until Oliver is on solids because it would probably be too long to leave him with someone (the longest he can go without food during the day is 2-3 hours). I was planning to get the DVD as soon as it came out. But! On Saturday Ben's parents offered to take Olly Woo for a walk so Ben and I could have some time to ourselves- woweee!! :)

I remember saying to Ben a few times just before Oliver was born how I was actually quite happy to "carry on being just the two of us"... he reminded me that it was a bit late for that now :) Having a baby around 24/7 has been wonderful but also a funny thing to get used to, so going on our first 'date' in two months was great! Plus, 'The King's Speech' was WONDERFUL!!!!! It really was great- amazing British cast, beautifully made, a real emotional journey, it's a true story (that always makes it better!) and tons of other things. I LOVE period dramas, and ones with Colin Firth in are even better (ahhhhh, P & P!) All in all, a truly excellent film. Everyone should see it... as long as they are old enough for a couple of scenes involving contextual swearing. I definately wouldn't like most of my brothers to see it quite yet because of that.

Just a super film, and all the better to be able to fulfil my latest desperate craving... to be able to go to the cinema! :) Hooray for parents.

Monday, 7 February 2011

"I didn't think a Mormon would sing in a Church of England choir??!"

Someone said this to Ben recently and I have thought about it a lot since. For those of you who don't know, this is the second year that I have sung with Magdalene College Chapel Choir. It is a typical C of E choir for one of the University colleges and we sing evensongs every Thursday and Sunday. I'm not sure if other people are surprised that I do this, so here are a few reasons why.

1. I think it's a great way to keep the Sabbath day holy.

2. It's the one thing I wanted to keep up after Oliver was born, and the only thing I do without him, so it's quite refreshing.

3. Mormons are Christians, so our beliefs and doctrines are fundamentally the same! I believe in the Godhead- that we have a Heavenly Father who created us and all things and loves us, a Saviour who atoned for our sins and enables us to live forever because of His resurrection, and the Holy Ghost, who comforts and guides us and testifies of truths. The difference is that we believe that God still speaks to man today through a Prophet, so we have further revelation and scriptures. We pray to the sane God but don't have too many set prayers (I'm still working on learning the ones for evensong!) although I recognise what is being said as prayers. Either way, the people who worship there are all trying to lead good lives and do what God wants us to do, and that makes us very, very similar.

4. Singing makes me happy and develops my talents! :)

5. After a really good or beautifully sung piece, I can feel the spirit and know that the words we are singing are true.

6. It's fun! :)

Thursday, 3 February 2011

Things we have learnt while buying a car

The last few months we have had some real adventures car-wise. Our loyal but very old Saxo finally had to go in October, when practically nothing worked on it anymore. We had been debating what to do about it as we got closer to the MOT date, but when we prayed about it and the same day we noticed it veering to the left, the knocking and squeaking getting louder and the brake lights not working (!) we decided it had to go. We parted with it at a scrap heap, got £140 and walked away.

Of course now we had to find a new car... but we didn't have a car to find one! (How come we didn't think of that before we got rid of it?) We had quite a tight criteria- diesel, very economical, small preferably, low tax band, low insurance group, full service history, cambelt change, under £2500 and less than an hour or two away. We had to rely on Ben's parents driving us to garages up and down the country when we were all free, which wasn't very often. Often we'd find one, but by the time we'd been able to work out the logistics of being able to see it it was long gone. Then there was the car we found on autotrader that looked absolutely perfect so Ben went up to Birmingham to see it and hopefully pick it up. When he got to the address it turned out to be a car park in the middle of dodgy estate rather than a house, and the address the car was registered to was hundreds of miles away! Hmm, stolen vehicle?! Another fun trip was going to see the slimey dealer who couldn't start the car for a while, and when he did get it running we saw that the "full service history" advertised was actually all written in the same handwriting despite it being done at other garages...!! After three or four weeks of searching we finally got lucky and picked up a lovely little Vauxhall Corsa. It was nippy, a good price, economical and wonderful to drive.

On 21st December it turned out it was also wonderful to drive INTO, when a taxi driver hit us while we were stationary and about to turn into our drive. Oliver was just two weeks old and miraculously no-one was hurt. Needless to say, the car was declared a write-off and we were back to square one again!

Amazingly the insurance company valued the Corsa at £675 more than we paid for it (it really WAS a good deal!) so we could now up our price and hopefully find something better! We were also given a very snazzy hire car for six weeks, so we could start the finding process again (oh joy!7s usually a reason why people get rid of the car- and in our experience it's usually because things are going wrong...

- Sometimes you can check everything, be very picky and think you've finally got it sussed, and it's still not right.

Well, we still haven't learnt how to do it properly, but one day we'll get it right, I'm sure?! It's all quite funny really :)